Every year when the Christmas music starts up, I notice some resistance in my soul to "getting in the spirit." My life is where it is, joyful or not, and I don't really want an added layer of pressure to be feeling a certain way about it. Maybe it's partly the knowledge that Christmas is a painful time of year for many whom I've been privileged to come to know in my work as a therapist. How often we hear that we're supposed to tune into the true meaning of Christmas. But find